Last September, things were great (i was thinking of using the word PERFECT, but things were never perfect with us: not in a bad way but who can expect perfection from a bunch of crazy nut cases???) What happened afterwards? Bites me...
Punctuality was never a key-word among us Leos, but being fashionably late was getting irritable with only few people working on time (the only few who worked on time followed the trend of being LATE) waste of time and effort reached its highest level and at certain times i realized its not only effort and time but my commitment has gone to the bin too...
The capacities of us are different, i'm not over-estimating ourselves but i feel the team we have is extraordinary and are blessed with many talents. We just need to put them right across to one FOCUS and sure we can do wonders. (I don't think many know that most clubs really envy us:) god knows for what reason but i always felt cos the bond we had within us which was truly seen by anyone who knew us)
What lies beneath and what really happened still bugs me. Most of us decided & made judgments after the project in December: the carols. i.e. when i realized that the commitment given by everyone is not the SAME. Like i said before we're of different talents and we have different ways of doing things but to work as a team we need the commitment EQUALLY. It may not necessarily be 100% but even if it is 50%, everybody should put in their 50%.
I still don't understand why i was accused of being a "de-motivation" to others where as i did my part for the project. I promised to find places to go and i found places where we can go and sing. (correct me if i'm wrong) But if everyone needs to do everything then it is everybody's responsibility to find places to go too... and hey what about our Leos who never came for the project? Credit for Mal for balancing both ends perfectly. Might as well accuse Shehari for NOT driving Chamal's van & me for not playing the guitar.
The understanding between us has gone to hell and i feel that everybody started believing EVERYTHING they hear. Why cant we just take the chance to clarify or give the benefit of doubt to the person we know well? (its just one call away: and all of us use either dialog or mobitel which costs only few rupees- except for Chamal who uses AIRTEL) why give a chance for misunderstandings when we all know 2 languages we can communicate with...
It really didn't take much time for the so called BOND we shared break down to pieces. Which always made me think why? i know that several people talked behind my back but was extra sweet and special to my face. Is it that the person who gives information is a backstabber or the rest has two faces? (i'm still wondering) In the short run, when someone told me about someone else, i've been hurt & confused. I've been friends with almost all and there are few whom i really care about & consider close. Judging behaviors of both the sectors, I had two options. (A) believe what i hear and screw my relationships with others (B) Dont give a shit to what they say, be-myself and keep up the friendship. Its very easy to go for (A) but after lots of thinking i realized in the macro sense NOTHING is worth ruining the friendship you have with people you care about. So i chose option (B)
What would you go for (A) or (B)? the choice is yours...
Punctuality was never a key-word among us Leos, but being fashionably late was getting irritable with only few people working on time (the only few who worked on time followed the trend of being LATE) waste of time and effort reached its highest level and at certain times i realized its not only effort and time but my commitment has gone to the bin too...
The capacities of us are different, i'm not over-estimating ourselves but i feel the team we have is extraordinary and are blessed with many talents. We just need to put them right across to one FOCUS and sure we can do wonders. (I don't think many know that most clubs really envy us:) god knows for what reason but i always felt cos the bond we had within us which was truly seen by anyone who knew us)
What lies beneath and what really happened still bugs me. Most of us decided & made judgments after the project in December: the carols. i.e. when i realized that the commitment given by everyone is not the SAME. Like i said before we're of different talents and we have different ways of doing things but to work as a team we need the commitment EQUALLY. It may not necessarily be 100% but even if it is 50%, everybody should put in their 50%.
I still don't understand why i was accused of being a "de-motivation" to others where as i did my part for the project. I promised to find places to go and i found places where we can go and sing. (correct me if i'm wrong) But if everyone needs to do everything then it is everybody's responsibility to find places to go too... and hey what about our Leos who never came for the project? Credit for Mal for balancing both ends perfectly. Might as well accuse Shehari for NOT driving Chamal's van & me for not playing the guitar.
The understanding between us has gone to hell and i feel that everybody started believing EVERYTHING they hear. Why cant we just take the chance to clarify or give the benefit of doubt to the person we know well? (its just one call away: and all of us use either dialog or mobitel which costs only few rupees- except for Chamal who uses AIRTEL) why give a chance for misunderstandings when we all know 2 languages we can communicate with...
It really didn't take much time for the so called BOND we shared break down to pieces. Which always made me think why? i know that several people talked behind my back but was extra sweet and special to my face. Is it that the person who gives information is a backstabber or the rest has two faces? (i'm still wondering) In the short run, when someone told me about someone else, i've been hurt & confused. I've been friends with almost all and there are few whom i really care about & consider close. Judging behaviors of both the sectors, I had two options. (A) believe what i hear and screw my relationships with others (B) Dont give a shit to what they say, be-myself and keep up the friendship. Its very easy to go for (A) but after lots of thinking i realized in the macro sense NOTHING is worth ruining the friendship you have with people you care about. So i chose option (B)
What would you go for (A) or (B)? the choice is yours...
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