Changes are chances in life which we accept or leave behind....

Why do people change? at certain times, we tend to take decisions and change because we have no choice, because we want to or cos we have to... Most of the time I have changed cos I've grown up with time, with reality and with experience... If change is something which needs to happen, why do we always hear "you have changed!!! you are not the same person I used to know anymore" Is it because only you have changed and it is hard for people around you to adopt for the change you have gone through???

The change is always seen or felt by people around you BUT it cannot be accepted by many. Is it coz you expect that person to be something which you portray in your mind? and when it doesn't fit that frame, automatically we reject the change unconsciously or that you are so much used to that person you just cant adopt yourself to that change? It doesn't have to be the person you are in love with but even when your best friend changes, you can't take it anymore.. the phrase "we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change" is applicable for everyone you deal with in life.. (well maybe not people whom we consider non existent: for my own benefit there is a category of people who are Non existent and I honestly don't care what they do or say except they die or something)

I have been hurt many times when people whom I love changed... Slowly but painfully I've started to accept it and love them the same way I used to do before (or even more).... Sometimes accepting changes and dealing with reality has a high price: sometimes it is hard to afford... I always think change comes in with risk and it is your choice after all whether to accept it or not?? Everybody talks about compromising & sacrificing. But if you really love a person, you just accept the changes that come your way and accept the person for what s/he changes to be...

Taking the chance, accepting changes and going on with it is your choice...Taking the risk might make you fail but leaving behind might make you regret. It is a risk and after all its your choice (most of the time unless you are blackmailed) We think we know the ones we love in & out... Knowingly or unknowingly they change & so do we...

After all life is a game of change and chance... whether you take the chance or leave it, the choice is yours..